So You're telling me that Love Hurts?

There are millions of PLU in Malaysia. 80% of these PLU are involved in relationships.It is sad to say that 20% of these relationships lead to unneccessary drama that is unfortunately condoned by the media by their act of playing shows like The O.C and One Tree Hill on Malaysia's most popular cable network. But if we were to look back on the parents that lived through university life during the 50's to the 70's, you could actually realise that love is so practical that there is no need for the extreme emotional rollercoaster rides to be taken in the midst of a proper boy girl or a boy boy relationship.Three rules to remember while dating :

1. It is not permanent.
2. Respect one another's different family values.
3. There are many more relationships to come.

Yes, this is all so cliched. But wouldn't you think that these rules should apply in a generation that considers public displays of emotion a common thing? Why fight in a bar and embarass yourselves? Why do it over and over again? Why create gangster-esque fueds in academic institutions? Why relate adolescent perversion to the true meanings of love? Giving a blow job isn't an act of promising a future today. Asking for one and receiving it without an ounce of guilt is pure chauvinism. Kudos to those that maintain the decency and dignity of a relationship. You can't get any more mature than that. To those that are single, take this as a lesson and apply it in future relationships. To those that would readily admit to being involved in the real life versions of these case scenarios, it's time to re-evaluate yourselves, and please remember to cause a little less drama in the future *Grin*

My 1st Malaysian Ex

In life we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream and an unforgettable love . . .

SONG THAT ALWAYS TOUCHES ME BY PHIL COLLINS ABOUT THE PEOPLE WITHOUT A HOME (HOMELESS) listen...

She calls out to the man on the street
"Sir can you help me?"
It's cold and I've no where to sleep,
is there somewhere you can tell me?
He walks on, doesn't look back
He pretends he can't hear her
He starts to whistle as he crosses the street
Seems embarrassed to be there
Oh, think twice, 'cause it's just another day for you and me in paradise
Oh, think twice, 'cause it's just another day for you,
You and me in paradise
She calls out to the man on the street
He can see she's been crying
She's got blisters on the soles of her feet
She can't walk but she's trying
Oh, think twice, 'cause it's just another day for and me in paradise
Oh, think twice, 'cause It's just another day for you,
You and me in paradise Oh lord, is there nothing more anybody can do
Oh lord, there must be something you can say
Oh, think twice, 'cause it's just another day for and me in paradise
Oh, think twice, 'cause It's just another day for you,
You and me in paradise
You can tell from the lines on her face
You can see that she's been there
Probably been moved on from every place 'Cause she didn't fit in this Oh, think twice, 'cause it's just another day for and me in paradise
Oh, think twice, 'cause It's just another day for you,
You and me in paradise
Just think about it
It's just another day for you and me in
Paradise It's just another day for you and me in Paradise
It's just another day for you and me in Paradise

Wannabe Character:

If I had to pick just one, this one would claim my top spot right now! haha Na just kidding Sufian! Lets go karaoke!

Because of a person like you

Thank you for all you do. Because you were thoughtful in such a nice way! Who take the time to do nice things the way you always do. Even if every flower in the world had a voice I couldn't send as many as it would take to say thanks enough! This brings sincere thanks. Heartfelt Thanks...for all that you have done.

I CONDEMNING ISRAEL!..

Entering in to year 2009, I condemn the israel, jewish nation with hatred in MY hearts, because of their cruel attacks to our muslim brothers and sisters in Palestine. They kill the people without thinking if they are women, children, old or sick. I hereby condemn the USA and western countries backing up the israel who has been a trouble for the humanity a long the history! Although they have the sameblood with muslims, I also condemn the Arabian countries with hate, because they turn their back to Muhammadian conciousness, become servant to USA and become mute to what is happenning to our brothers and sisters! No matter how much Jews forget the days in which the blood they shed had swallowed them , ALLAH most high is El-Muntaqim(Avenger) and make them live those days to these cruel people! I call all islamic nations to unite, be ONE and withstand against this cruelty!

I am calling all believers to pray to ALLAH to return this blood river to the ones who shed it!
May ALLAH give us, Muslims the Muhammadian conciousness! And May ALLAH give it quick InsyaALLAH!..

MY THOUGHTS OF YOU

My 'umi' always told me that we could never measure our wealth by money but by our friends. She would surely be glad to meet you and know how rich I turned out to be!I'm glad friendship doesn't come with price tags. For if it does, I'd never afford someone as great as you. God in heaven, God above, please protect the friend I love. Sent with a smile, sealed with a kiss, I love my friend who's reading this.The nicest place these days is right beside your friends. You light up my life. You make me smile. You warm my heart. A friend is sweet when it is new. And it is sweeter when it is true. But you know what? It is sweetest when it is you. A coin is easy to earn, a friend is hard to find. The coin depreciates but a friend appreciates. I lost a coin when I texted you, but it's okay because I got you. A smile makes us look younger… while prayers make us feel stronger… and friends…? They make us enjoy life forever.Each day God sends His angels to guide us. We don't expect to see them with wings, or with halo flying above their heads. Instead, they come in disguise and we call them friends. Thank you for being an angel to me! A friend is like a book that has to be read to appreciate its beauty. As such, you're one of the finest books ever written. How I wish you could be reprinted! What are the differences between a RM and a friend? A RM is easy to earn, a friend is hard to find. A RM loses its value, a friend increases its worth. God sprinkles tiny but wonderful seeds of blessings on earth each day...and I just caught one that's so nice and true...It's you! A single candle can illuminate an entire room. A true friend lights up an entire lifetime. Thanks for the bright lights of your friendship.Friendship is a gift that is fair in all things. It roots from one's heart and involves memories that stay not for a while but for a lifetime.If you open my heart, guess what you are gonna see? It's you. True friends are hard to find so I kept you. Care is the main ingredient that keeps true friendships alive despite separation, distance and time. Care sustains love. Since I can't see you, let my care be with you, friend! What is a friend? He looks out for you, inspires you, laughs with you, cries with you, understands you, guides you and walks with you. That's what a friend is…you.I have a pen which is blue, I have a friend which is you. Flowers will die, waters will dry, but our friendship will never say goodbye. How long shall we be friends? Do you want a clue? As long as stars twinkle in the sky, till the water runs dry and till the day I die. We will be friends. I might run out of cute graphics to send you, but I'll never run out of this: care for you. A friend is a push when you have stopped, a chat when you are lonely, a guide when you are searching, a smile when you are sad, a song when you are glad.Colors may fade, the sun may not shine, the moon may not be bright, heartbeats may stop, lives may pass but our friendship, I'll treasure 'till the day my heart stops. When you're down, I'll be there to cheer you up. When you're tired, I'll be there to lift you up. I'll be your friend no matter what! Friends are like "buah mangga"... you'll never know which is sweet and which is not. Well I'm lucky coz I was able to find the sweetest mangga in you! If you want to be happy for a day, get a date. Happy for a week, get a lover. Happy till the end, keep me. I don't regret the things I have done and the things I didn't do. For somewhere along the way I must have done something right coz I ended up with a friend like you.I may have forgotten to say that I care. I may have failed to open up and share, but though no words have been spoken, my promise of friendship won't be broken.Time and distance are important between friends. When a friend is in your heart, they remain there forever. I may be busy, but I assure you, you are always in my heart!I was never tired of this life and it's not gonna matter if I fall down twice, coz I know each time I fall, you won't let me hit the ground. Thanks for being around.Friends are gifts wrapped in ribbons of thoughtfulness and trimmed with kisses and smiles, given by God to stay not just for a day, but for life. Thanks! Fifty years from now, I'd be so old I might forget you. I might not remember ever knowing you, or might forget I once cared for you. I might… but I won't. Do you ever recall the first day we met? Our first hello? The day we became friends? Well, I do and I will always remember. For that very day, I knew I'd cherish you. Some friends are remembered because of their smile. Some friends are remembered because of their style. But you are remembered because you are so nice to remember. Take care.Someday you may lose your hair, your teeth, your looks, or even your memory. But there's something you won't lose. Me, coz I'll always be your friend.I won't promise to be your friend forever, coz I won't live that long. But let me be your friend as long as I live. I may not have the most expensive things but I've got a most precious gem… a friend like you.I admit I'll never be the perfect friend. I'll never be there always. I may not make you smile at times but there is one thing I admit I could do. To be the person I could be for you.Friends are like the walls of a house. Sometimes they hold you up, sometimes you lean on them. But sometimes, it's enough to know they're just standing by.I thank the Lord for the gift of friendship where I can be myself and be accepted as I am and for finding a home in the heart of a friend.Keep me as a friend and I will keep you in my heart and lock it up. I'll throw away the key so that no one can take you away from me. Some joys are better explained in silence, as a smile gets more audible than laughter. I was asked if I enjoyed my friendship with you. I just smiled.If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them; I'd be at the bottom to catch them. Thank you for touching my life in ways you may never know. My riches do not lie in material wealth but in having friends like you - a precious gift from God!I always thought loving someone is the greatest feeling, but I realized that loving a friend is even better. We lose people we love, but we never lose true friends.If one day you feel like crying, call me. I can't promise to make you laugh, but I'm willing to cry with you. A man should keep his friends in a constant repair. The difficulty is not so great to die for a friend, as to find a friend worth dying for.Some friends are separated by time. Some are separated by differences. Some by distances, some by pride. But no matter how far you are or different we may be, you'll always be a friend to me! There is a golden bridge called friendship that spans the river of time and links out hearts together even if we walks separate roads of life.If friends were flowers surely I would not pick you! I'd let you grow in the garden and cultivate you with love and care so I can keep you forever.One tree can start a forest, one smile can start a friendship. One touch can show you care, one friend can make life worth living for. In my dreams, we were never apart. In my dreams you kept me close. In my dreams you loved me the most. In my dreams we're always together. Might as well be dreaming forever.